I asked a question recently, and it was, what to do if your wife wants to leave you ?

Because they are not allowed in our home. Wow ! I sure got some biased answers without very much info. ! Here is the sordid details... I met my wife 11 yrs. Ago march 23rd. I was in the throes of a divorce with three kids and it came out of nowhere. Never fighting, wonderful family and future. I worked three jobs to support us and try to get ahead. That dismal day she came to me crying telling me she had got us deeply into debt by signing my name to loans I didn't know about, and by the way...I don't love you anymore. Like a light switch. Anyways, after counseling and no hope for reconciliation I was beaten. I was dying, my life was gone, my children moved in with her as there were no rules, they didn't even have to go to school half the time. I somehow found the strength in myself to ride a bicycle, to keep busy I also started running. Then weight lifting and martial arts. I looked like a 20 yr. Old 220 lbs. 6 percent body fat. Although I wasn't the least bit interested, the girls really liked how I looked. So on we go... I tied getting on the computer with little luck..Haha it was ridiculous, trying to "chat" with people as I was all thumbs...I came across MSN chat and while trying to get in on very fast paced convo. A lady was on tete having the same trouble, she offered to "whisper" to me (privately) so we wouldn't be overwhelmed with the pace the others had set. as I got to know her the problems in her life with her physically and mentally abusive husband drew me towards her, I knew I could help her ! We became friends..she then told me she had M.S. which is why her husband left her. Undeterred, I spent countless hours researching this debilitating disease, while we both quietly and completely fell headlong in love with each other. Her 12 yr old daughter would always have something to say to me(..in front of family) usually something like" hi f'n ******..or what a Dick..and grandma and family would say..."now....... that's not nice .and let it go.! Her boys